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Luv marriage vs Arrange Marriage : Get the interesting facts

Hi frnds.. once again I m coming with new blog. This blog will tell you some sharp and interesting observation between Arrange Marriage and Love Marriage. I m writing some points regarding marriages which i have observed so far. Dont be think i m pointing some one , Its related to me and my thoughts.

First point is completely related to our Families. Families plays vital role in marriage so first point is to which family or background we are coming . In reality , U belong to typical Indian society and as u are Indian u have no right to take decision yourself. This is 2017 and still we follow our elders and parents and can not disagree with their decision. I m not saying they are right or wrong i m just saying we are just followers. I have met with some frnds and they say blah blah about this so first point is devoted to our families.
Second :  If u want to make your parents happy then go for arrange marriage. Despite so many opposes , we have so many example where love marriage happened and it worked very well but most of the Arrange marriage success ratio is far better than love.
Third : Another important aspect of Arrange marriage is as comparison  to love marriage is that we can easily follow our society rules and our own rituals and all.
Fourth : As you have seen on FB their is post of two kinds of Roti, one is fully baked and another is burnt . From my view, U will always get fully baked roti if u deserve it. Always care for ur loved one and its possible in arrange marriage.
Fifth : If u r firmly believer of Compromise and adjustment go for Arrange marriage. Its my one of favorite point because my lyf taught me one lesson again and again and its Compromise and Adjustment.

Sixth : If u two belong to big families like Chaudhery, Reddy Baniya, Chauhan ya other and ur marriage is going to be a big alliance so go for it. It makes so many people happy and its also  believe in our society we have to make alliance between similar people and status.
Seventh : Arrange marriage has mutual understanding , compatibility, loyalty, trust, believe  and many more but in Love some where its lacking because Now- a-days people dont have so many Patience. In arranged marriages, the couples must the consent of their parents. On the other hand, in most of the love marriages,the partners will not need the consent of the parents, or elders.

Unlike love marriages, arranged marriages are more stable. Divorces are seen less in arranged marriages, and there is a great family bond.
Eighth : Last line for all wives , wife- wife hoti hai and lyf hoti hai . If u look up for life longs stay go for arrange marriage and I am not going to comment about GF and others.
Ninth : It is an interesting point . In arranged marriages, the parents will be thoroughly investigating the background of the bride and the groom. They will be looking into every aspect, like wealth, health conditions and habits. In love marriages, the couples are not worried about any background investigations. It is just love that runs in their blood. I think so.
Tenth : When talking about love, love has to be developed in an arranged marriage, as they will only know each other better after the wedlock, but in a love marriage, the couples have always been in love, and there is no need to develop it. But in arranged marriages, the couples may or may not be able to understand each other very well, and also not know the likes and dislikes of each other.
But now we have option of Phone and Internet with JIO.
Eleventh : Another thing that is seen in arranged marriages, is that men are always more dominant than the women. In love marriage, the couples get to know each other ahead of the wedlock. In such marriages, no one seems to be dominant person over the other. This is the big issues and mostly seen in Rural areas in India.
Now i m closing my blog with some last observations. In the last marriages decides in heaven,  we are just the processors and God is our executor , We are nothing in front of our destiny. Koi b shadi ho bus achi honi chhahiye. Personally I like love marriages but i will advice u go for arrange marriage because i love my family N its values and its right from my point of view Arrange is always better than Love. And one thing more dont do partiality between Boys and Girls.
This  is completely my views,  Don't compare and connect with others .

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